I was just innocently heading for my favourite nail salon today... when I came face to face with the motherfucker who's been dodging me.
You can be into casual sex if you want- but it's partly cloudy, with a chance of fuck all.
Nobody gives a flying fuck what meaningless fluff you do for show- but this is especially true when you're shouting verbal abuse at your kids on the regular.
HOW ABOUT ACTUALLY EMBODYING GOOD THINGS, INSTEAD OF JUST FAKING IT ON THE OUTSIDE?
You can't make anyone do anything. You can, however, motivate them to treat you with respect, by acting in a way which commands that. (You can even do that half naked, believe it or not.)
What do you think would happen if you just let everything go? All the bullshit. All the excuses, and dramatic justifications you offer up- when people ask why things aren't how you want them to be?
Study hard, and maintain an excellent career.... ... while you raise the kids you had to take time off to give birth to.
If you have to ask yourself if your man is lying to you, your question is already answered.
You can't claim to be moderating your outgoing fucks carefully, if you're allowing the things people say TO you and do AROUND you, to affect your core.
If nobody is in the dating pool... then you're gonna be skinny dipping alone. Fucking boring.